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		<title>Comment on Don&#8217;t Fall for Dangling Carrot Syndrome by Danielle Keister</title>
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		<dc:creator>Danielle Keister</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Aug 2011 16:07:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Nope, it&#039;s a bunch of bullshit. It amounts to working on speculation without any guarantee that they would even make any money, much less enough to make it worth your while for having spent your time and energy laboring over. I can&#039;t tell you how many times I&#039;ve seen this kind of arrangement fail miserably (through no fault of the service provider who provided what they were supposed to). And the service providers, despite all THEIR great work, end up footing the bill and not getting paid for what they&#039;ve done.

If a so-called client is successful enough (and many of them who propose this kind of arrangement are not) to have something that&#039;s worth a damn, then they should have enough money to simply pay you what you require, in full and in advance. Professionals don&#039;t need incentives to be professional and do good work. And as independent professionals, we are not responsible for their success or failure. It amounts to subsidizing someone else&#039;s business. Yet they are placing that responsibility on your shoulders when you work on incentive. Like I say, it&#039;s just another bullshit way exploiters try to get out of paying us fairly and squarely.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Nope, it&#8217;s a bunch of bullshit. It amounts to working on speculation without any guarantee that they would even make any money, much less enough to make it worth your while for having spent your time and energy laboring over. I can&#8217;t tell you how many times I&#8217;ve seen this kind of arrangement fail miserably (through no fault of the service provider who provided what they were supposed to). And the service providers, despite all THEIR great work, end up footing the bill and not getting paid for what they&#8217;ve done.</p>
<p>If a so-called client is successful enough (and many of them who propose this kind of arrangement are not) to have something that&#8217;s worth a damn, then they should have enough money to simply pay you what you require, in full and in advance. Professionals don&#8217;t need incentives to be professional and do good work. And as independent professionals, we are not responsible for their success or failure. It amounts to subsidizing someone else&#8217;s business. Yet they are placing that responsibility on your shoulders when you work on incentive. Like I say, it&#8217;s just another bullshit way exploiters try to get out of paying us fairly and squarely.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Don&#8217;t Fall for Dangling Carrot Syndrome by Geri</title>
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		<dc:creator>Geri</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Aug 2011 15:29:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think if the incentive is big enough it could work -- it would have to be MORE than what you would have made on a purely hourly basis. A large percentage -- perhaps 30% of gross sales -- might be a win-win. Although I have no idea if that&#039;s the kind of percentages we are talking about here.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think if the incentive is big enough it could work &#8212; it would have to be MORE than what you would have made on a purely hourly basis. A large percentage &#8212; perhaps 30% of gross sales &#8212; might be a win-win. Although I have no idea if that&#8217;s the kind of percentages we are talking about here.</p>
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		<title>Comment on It&#8217;s Sad When People Have to Close Their Business Doors by Danielle Keister</title>
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		<dc:creator>Danielle Keister</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 16 Jul 2011 04:21:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Farah :)

Thanks for commenting. Yeah, the virtual assistant term is really completely idiotic to me anymore. If you&#039;re a business owner, you are not anyone&#039;s assistant. 

Administrative support is an expertise and specialization in and of itself, and you certainly don&#039;t need to be anyone&#039;s assistant in order to provide that expertise.

I don&#039;t think online business manager is any better a term (I actually detest that term almost as much) and here&#039;s why:  As an independent consultant, expert and business owner in the art of administrative support, it is not your job to manage any client&#039;s business. That&#039;s their responsibility. So I absolutely detest this further idiotic, devaluing mindset being perpetrated out there to people in the business of administrative support that they aren&#039;t enough, that their expertise isn&#039;t enough, that they have to do that AND manage their clients&#039; businesses. It&#039;s complete bullshit and it really pisses me off because it sends a really devaluing message to newcomers that their skills and knowledge and talents that they spent years gaining STILL aren&#039;t enough. And really, the origins of that term, just like the term virtual assistant, yet again come from people being led around by the nose by clients and industry outsiders.

For all these reasons, at least for those who are in the business of administrative support, that&#039;s why I&#039;ve moved on to the term Administrative Consultant. 

Have you checked out the new site yet? http://administrativeconsultantsassoc.com/</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Farah <img src='http://www.grittyva.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Thanks for commenting. Yeah, the virtual assistant term is really completely idiotic to me anymore. If you&#8217;re a business owner, you are not anyone&#8217;s assistant. </p>
<p>Administrative support is an expertise and specialization in and of itself, and you certainly don&#8217;t need to be anyone&#8217;s assistant in order to provide that expertise.</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t think online business manager is any better a term (I actually detest that term almost as much) and here&#8217;s why:  As an independent consultant, expert and business owner in the art of administrative support, it is not your job to manage any client&#8217;s business. That&#8217;s their responsibility. So I absolutely detest this further idiotic, devaluing mindset being perpetrated out there to people in the business of administrative support that they aren&#8217;t enough, that their expertise isn&#8217;t enough, that they have to do that AND manage their clients&#8217; businesses. It&#8217;s complete bullshit and it really pisses me off because it sends a really devaluing message to newcomers that their skills and knowledge and talents that they spent years gaining STILL aren&#8217;t enough. And really, the origins of that term, just like the term virtual assistant, yet again come from people being led around by the nose by clients and industry outsiders.</p>
<p>For all these reasons, at least for those who are in the business of administrative support, that&#8217;s why I&#8217;ve moved on to the term Administrative Consultant. </p>
<p>Have you checked out the new site yet? <a href="http://administrativeconsultantsassoc.com/" rel="nofollow">http://administrativeconsultantsassoc.com/</a></p>
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		<title>Comment on It&#8217;s Sad When People Have to Close Their Business Doors by Farah</title>
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		<dc:creator>Farah</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 16 Jul 2011 03:53:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey, Danielle!

I haven&#039;t had the pleasure to read your blog in a while, but I&#039;m always pleasantly surprised at the depth of your insight.

I just have to comment on the whole &#039;virtual assitant&#039; thing for a second. 

When I first got into the business, there was so much promise... I have a strong background in administrative support so I thought it would be a great business for me to be in.  However, I have found that there are soooooo many people passing themselves off as VA&#039;s (any dope who pays $2,000 for a kit can post a badge on their website and voila...) when they clearly have no clue what it means to provide that kind of support.

Add to that the hundred of &quot;Virtual Assistance&quot; companies abroad who are competing with seasoned, skilled VA&#039;s and provide services for pennies.... the market just seems diluted and weak.

Through some serious reflection and focus, I have found that I have NEVER been anyone&#039;s &#039;assistant&#039;, and I also had lots of trouble trying to explain that even though I called myself a VA I wasn&#039;t a secretary... I was a business partner.

Most recently I have shifted my focus to providing grant research, RFP and RFQ assistance, as well as M/WBE certification assistance to small businesses. Now that I have a new focus, I don&#039;t even call myself a VA anymore... I&quot;m a grant writer. It&#039;s clear, concise, and easy to explain.

Before I even decided to change direction, I liked the term &quot;online business manager&#039; better than VA... but that doesn&#039;t really explain what I do now, either.

I&#039;ll stick with what I know works.

Always a pleasure!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey, Danielle!</p>
<p>I haven&#8217;t had the pleasure to read your blog in a while, but I&#8217;m always pleasantly surprised at the depth of your insight.</p>
<p>I just have to comment on the whole &#8216;virtual assitant&#8217; thing for a second. </p>
<p>When I first got into the business, there was so much promise&#8230; I have a strong background in administrative support so I thought it would be a great business for me to be in.  However, I have found that there are soooooo many people passing themselves off as VA&#8217;s (any dope who pays $2,000 for a kit can post a badge on their website and voila&#8230;) when they clearly have no clue what it means to provide that kind of support.</p>
<p>Add to that the hundred of &#8220;Virtual Assistance&#8221; companies abroad who are competing with seasoned, skilled VA&#8217;s and provide services for pennies&#8230;. the market just seems diluted and weak.</p>
<p>Through some serious reflection and focus, I have found that I have NEVER been anyone&#8217;s &#8216;assistant&#8217;, and I also had lots of trouble trying to explain that even though I called myself a VA I wasn&#8217;t a secretary&#8230; I was a business partner.</p>
<p>Most recently I have shifted my focus to providing grant research, RFP and RFQ assistance, as well as M/WBE certification assistance to small businesses. Now that I have a new focus, I don&#8217;t even call myself a VA anymore&#8230; I&#8221;m a grant writer. It&#8217;s clear, concise, and easy to explain.</p>
<p>Before I even decided to change direction, I liked the term &#8220;online business manager&#8217; better than VA&#8230; but that doesn&#8217;t really explain what I do now, either.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ll stick with what I know works.</p>
<p>Always a pleasure!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Whew, I &#8216;ve been gone awhile by Barbara Shoemaker</title>
		<link>http://www.grittyva.com/2011/06/28/whew-i-ve-been-gone-awhile/comment-page-1/#comment-79414</link>
		<dc:creator>Barbara Shoemaker</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 28 Jun 2011 20:36:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am just starting my virtual business and I think Admisitrative Consultant is far more accurate and professional in describing what we do.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am just starting my virtual business and I think Admisitrative Consultant is far more accurate and professional in describing what we do.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Whew, I &#8216;ve been gone awhile by Arlene</title>
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		<dc:creator>Arlene</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 28 Jun 2011 18:41:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey Danielle. Sounds awesome. Yes, this year sure has flown. I am already preparing for my 2nd Chairpersonship and Movational Speaking gig next week, got a 90% rating on the last one so yeah, I agree with you that if you market yourself properly doors of opportunity open that you wouldn&#039;t even of thought of. I will have to reconsider changing my business name slightly to get rid of the &#039;assistants&#039; part, all in good time. So many irons in the fire at the moment making life look interesting and the future bright. Keep on doing what you doing because you are AWESOME! Lol as always, me xoxo</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey Danielle. Sounds awesome. Yes, this year sure has flown. I am already preparing for my 2nd Chairpersonship and Movational Speaking gig next week, got a 90% rating on the last one so yeah, I agree with you that if you market yourself properly doors of opportunity open that you wouldn&#8217;t even of thought of. I will have to reconsider changing my business name slightly to get rid of the &#8216;assistants&#8217; part, all in good time. So many irons in the fire at the moment making life look interesting and the future bright. Keep on doing what you doing because you are AWESOME! Lol as always, me xoxo</p>
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		<title>Comment on POLL: What Is Your Favorite Ezine Reading Day? by Danielle Keister</title>
		<link>http://www.grittyva.com/2011/06/06/poll-what-is-your-favorite-ezine-reading-day/comment-page-1/#comment-78824</link>
		<dc:creator>Danielle Keister</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Jun 2011 22:32:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh wow! That is a huge number of moves. You totally deserve a break, lol! 

Yeah, I&#039;m not really into Facebook still. I don&#039;t use it for business. I only use it as a temporary forum for the VACOC/ACA until we get our real forum up on the new site. It something to stay connected in the meantime though. 

Glad to hear from ya!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh wow! That is a huge number of moves. You totally deserve a break, lol! </p>
<p>Yeah, I&#8217;m not really into Facebook still. I don&#8217;t use it for business. I only use it as a temporary forum for the VACOC/ACA until we get our real forum up on the new site. It something to stay connected in the meantime though. </p>
<p>Glad to hear from ya!</p>
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		<title>Comment on POLL: What Is Your Favorite Ezine Reading Day? by Carol</title>
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		<dc:creator>Carol</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Jun 2011 22:19:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks, Danielle, that means a lot to me!

Between client work, homeschooling, working on my new website and moving (yet again!) back to NJ, I haven&#039;t been around anywhere online for almost six months.

Let me tell ya 3 moves in 2 years is more than enough! LOL! 

Happy to see you have a Facebook page! It was a pleasant surprise since I thought you hated Facebook. LOL!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks, Danielle, that means a lot to me!</p>
<p>Between client work, homeschooling, working on my new website and moving (yet again!) back to NJ, I haven&#8217;t been around anywhere online for almost six months.</p>
<p>Let me tell ya 3 moves in 2 years is more than enough! LOL! </p>
<p>Happy to see you have a Facebook page! It was a pleasant surprise since I thought you hated Facebook. LOL!</p>
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		<title>Comment on POLL: What Is Your Favorite Ezine Reading Day? by Danielle Keister</title>
		<link>http://www.grittyva.com/2011/06/06/poll-what-is-your-favorite-ezine-reading-day/comment-page-1/#comment-78681</link>
		<dc:creator>Danielle Keister</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Jun 2011 15:56:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey Carol! Long time no see! And thank you--it&#039;s been a long time coming. We actually started it way back last year, but then I got a mental block. I had a really great conversation with Donnamarie Needle and that really helped me see my direction again and its been full speed ahead ever since.

Your site is looking wonderful, too! I see you&#039;ve been just as busy! Good stuff. :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey Carol! Long time no see! And thank you&#8211;it&#8217;s been a long time coming. We actually started it way back last year, but then I got a mental block. I had a really great conversation with Donnamarie Needle and that really helped me see my direction again and its been full speed ahead ever since.</p>
<p>Your site is looking wonderful, too! I see you&#8217;ve been just as busy! Good stuff. <img src='http://www.grittyva.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>Comment on POLL: What Is Your Favorite Ezine Reading Day? by Danielle Keister</title>
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		<dc:creator>Danielle Keister</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Jun 2011 15:53:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey Miss G :)

Always nice to hear from you! How are things over in Missouri? I had sent you a message, but never heard back after tornados. I sure hope you&#039;re doing fine.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey Miss G <img src='http://www.grittyva.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Always nice to hear from you! How are things over in Missouri? I had sent you a message, but never heard back after tornados. I sure hope you&#8217;re doing fine.</p>
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